So many times others may make us feel that we are not worthy of their love. That we have only conditional approval with them. That we have to jump through hoops and leap tall buildings to even begin to measure up to their requirements. Well, if no one has told you lately, I want to let you know that you are valuable!
You have so much to offer, and it is time to tap into yourself and determine your worth. People will treat us how we allow them to treat us. We have to expect to be treated like a rare diamond because we are a rare diamond.
We have so much untapped potential. Imagine our value, if we only knew our worth. How much are you worth? What do you bring to the table? Shouldn’t a potential mate bring at least the same thing to the table as you bring to the table? Why do we think it is okay to accept crumbs, when we can have the entire meal?
When you recognize your worth, you won’t allow others to abuse your kindness. When you recognize your worth, you won’t do things that lessen your worth. You will not degrade yourself so the other person can feel valued. When you recognize your worth, others will recognize your worth too. Some people won’t even approach you because they will recognize that they have to approach you correctly, or not at all.
So, I ask you again – what is you worth? Isn’t it time you find out?
There are some folks that are just too woke and deep for their own good. When does good ol common sense kick in? When does analyzing the decisions and actions of others go to far? Quit trying to psychoanalyze every word and action. Let it go and recognize it is what it is. Some stuff is just not that deep!
Here are some mantras to remember to remove yourself from drowning in being woke and deep:
1. Everybody doesn’t have to agree with you.
2. It’s not your job to change my mind.
3. Speak your truth.
4. Every statement doesn’t require reading between the lines. Some people actually say what they mean, and mean what they say.
5. Self-inspection is free. Try it sometimes because maybe just maybe your lack of self-inspection is the real issue.
6. Quit passing your personal issues on to others. Deal with your issues!
7. Choose to place your soapbox on the shelf.
8. JUST LET IT GO!
We are told no by our parents because they want us to learn the value of a dollar. If we were given everything we wanted, we wouldn’t know how to respond in a time of stretched finances. We have seen the result of children who are never told no. Words are inadequate to express how we feel, when we accomplish something because of our sacrifice. I remember earning my first degree. I still can’t place into words how I felt to earn something that no one could take away from me. What about when you receive that first car title, after making that last car payment? How about that feeling of being debt free? Any of these actions required some kind of sacrifice.
However, the sacrifice was worth it because there was greater on the other side of the sacrifice. We know how to sacrifice, but have we taught our children how to sacrifice?
Our children are living in some of the best of times. My generation has been able to provide for our children some of the things that our parents were unable to provide for us. We have paid college tuition, purchased cars, paid monthly rent and supplied our children with designer clothes and high-end electronics. We have done all of these things, but have we taught them how to sacrifice? Have we taught our children how to save money, buy a CD (and I am not talking about a music CD), purchase shares of stock, or just the lesson of delayed gratification. The last thing we should want is our children living paycheck to paycheck because they are wearing their money on their backs and feet.
Let’s teach them how to sacrifice. Sacrificing builds good character and productive citizens who don’t mind helping someone else along the way because they know what it’s like to persevere through difficulty; and they recognize that they could be in the same position. So, what lesson in sacrificing will you be giving this week?